Update Netty version

This seems to fix the FOSS test timeout.

Also use the static-linked netty-tcnative library in tests to ensure that
OpenSSL provider is always available in tests. In production, we should use
the dynamic-linked version to reduce binary footprint and relay on system
OpenSSL library.

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Created by MOE: https://github.com/google/moe
MOE_MIGRATED_REVID=208057173

java/google/registry/proxy/BUILD

@@ -17,9 +17,6 @@ java_library(
         "resources/*",
         "config/*.yaml",
     ]),
-    runtime_deps = [
-        "@io_netty_tcnative",
-    ],
     deps = [
         "//java/google/registry/config",
         "//java/google/registry/util",
@@ -56,6 +53,7 @@ java_binary(
     main_class = "google.registry.proxy.ProxyServer",
     runtime_deps = [
         ":proxy",
+        "@io_netty_tcnative",
     ],
 )