Update Hibernate and various other dependencies (#2986)

This ended up being wayyyy more complicated than expected due to
issues with Hibernate, various dependencies having conflicts with the
proto dependency version, and other breaking changes.

Notes:
- Hibernate 7 switches up the user type / converter system and for us,
  this means we must be / want to be more explicit with how we convert
and store things. For example, we need to add Postgres types to @Column
definitions.
- Hibernate 7.3 has an issue with generic MappedSuperclasses -- we have
  issues with BaseDomainLabelList. I'll investigate that, but for now
let's stick with 7.2.x
- H7 is more strict with annotations and prevents us from storing mapped
  superclasses embedded within other objects. This kinda makes sense but
makes the History objects a bit more difficult. We had to add "concrete"
embeddable DomainBase and HostBase objects that we can store/retrieve
from the DB.
- We convert some of the calls to "Query" to "TypedQuery" -- in
  Hibernate 8 / JPA 4.0 these will be super-deprecated and we'll need to
shift everything over, so this is necessary.
- You aren't supposed to put callback listeners on embedded entities
  (because it can be not obvious what's happening). We don't like that,
so we add our own annotations that are processed recursively for
embedded entities, so we get things like the update / create
timestamps.
- Hibernate doesn't allow for multiple converters to be auto-applied to
  the same "type" and it counts all VKey converters as one type.
Unfortunately, this means we have to explicitly mark each one.
- A bunch of other dependency changes were required to keep from having
  the proto 3/4 conflict

load-testing/gradle.lockfile

@@ -10,7 +10,7 @@ com.google.auto:auto-common:1.2.1=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationP
 com.google.code.findbugs:jsr305:3.0.2=annotationProcessor,checkstyle,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
 com.google.errorprone:error_prone_annotation:2.23.0=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
 com.google.errorprone:error_prone_annotations:2.23.0=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
-com.google.errorprone:error_prone_annotations:2.36.0=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+com.google.errorprone:error_prone_annotations:2.41.0=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
 com.google.errorprone:error_prone_annotations:2.7.1=checkstyle
 com.google.errorprone:error_prone_check_api:2.23.0=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
 com.google.errorprone:error_prone_core:2.23.0=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
@@ -23,11 +23,11 @@ com.google.guava:failureaccess:1.0.3=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspat
 com.google.guava:guava-parent:32.1.1-jre=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
 com.google.guava:guava:31.0.1-jre=checkstyle
 com.google.guava:guava:32.1.1-jre=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
-com.google.guava:guava:33.4.8-jre=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+com.google.guava:guava:33.5.0-jre=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
 com.google.guava:listenablefuture:9999.0-empty-to-avoid-conflict-with-guava=checkstyle,compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
 com.google.inject:guice:5.1.0=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
 com.google.j2objc:j2objc-annotations:1.3=checkstyle
-com.google.j2objc:j2objc-annotations:3.0.0=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+com.google.j2objc:j2objc-annotations:3.1=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
 com.google.protobuf:protobuf-java:3.19.6=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
 com.puppycrawl.tools:checkstyle:9.3=checkstyle
 commons-beanutils:commons-beanutils:1.9.4=checkstyle
@@ -35,22 +35,22 @@ commons-collections:commons-collections:3.2.2=checkstyle
 info.picocli:picocli:4.6.2=checkstyle
 io.github.eisop:dataflow-errorprone:3.34.0-eisop1=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
 io.github.java-diff-utils:java-diff-utils:4.12=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
-io.netty:netty-buffer:4.1.124.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-io.netty:netty-codec-http:4.1.124.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-io.netty:netty-codec:4.1.124.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-io.netty:netty-common:4.1.124.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-io.netty:netty-handler:4.1.124.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-io.netty:netty-resolver:4.1.124.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-io.netty:netty-transport-native-unix-common:4.1.124.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-io.netty:netty-transport:4.1.124.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+io.netty:netty-buffer:4.1.132.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+io.netty:netty-codec-http:4.1.132.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+io.netty:netty-codec:4.1.132.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+io.netty:netty-common:4.1.132.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+io.netty:netty-handler:4.1.132.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+io.netty:netty-resolver:4.1.132.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+io.netty:netty-transport-native-unix-common:4.1.132.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+io.netty:netty-transport:4.1.132.Final=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
 javax.inject:javax.inject:1=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
-joda-time:joda-time:2.14.0=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+joda-time:joda-time:2.14.1=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
 net.sf.saxon:Saxon-HE:10.6=checkstyle
 org.antlr:antlr4-runtime:4.9.3=checkstyle
-org.bouncycastle:bcpg-jdk18on:1.81=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-org.bouncycastle:bcpkix-jdk18on:1.81=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-org.bouncycastle:bcprov-jdk18on:1.81=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
-org.bouncycastle:bcutil-jdk18on:1.81=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+org.bouncycastle:bcpg-jdk18on:1.83=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+org.bouncycastle:bcpkix-jdk18on:1.83=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+org.bouncycastle:bcprov-jdk18on:1.83=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
+org.bouncycastle:bcutil-jdk18on:1.83=compileClasspath,deploy_jar,runtimeClasspath,testCompileClasspath,testRuntimeClasspath
 org.checkerframework:checker-qual:3.12.0=checkstyle
 org.checkerframework:checker-qual:3.33.0=annotationProcessor,errorprone,testAnnotationProcessor
 org.jacoco:org.jacoco.agent:0.8.12=jacocoAgent,jacocoAnt