Supervisor listens for HTTPS on port 443 with configurable TLS certs

- TLS certificates can be configured on the OIDCProviderConfig using
  the `secretName` field.
- When listening for incoming TLS connections, choose the TLS cert
  based on the SNI hostname of the incoming request.
- Because SNI hostname information on incoming requests does not include
  the port number of the request, we add a validation that
  OIDCProviderConfigs where the issuer hostnames (not including port
  number) are the same must use the same `secretName`.
- Note that this approach does not yet support requests made to an
  IP address instead of a hostname. Also note that `localhost` is
  considered a hostname by SNI.
- Add port 443 as a container port to the pod spec.
- A new controller watches for TLS secrets and caches them in memory.
  That same in-memory cache is used while servicing incoming connections
  on the TLS port.
- Make it easy to configure both port 443 and/or port 80 for various
  Service types using our ytt templates for the supervisor.
- When deploying to kind, add another nodeport and forward it to the
  host on another port to expose our new HTTPS supervisor port to the
  host.

internal/controller/supervisorconfig/testdata/test.crt

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