Always set an owner ref back to our deployment

This change updates our clients to always set an owner ref when:

1. The operation is a create
2. The object does not already have an owner ref set

Signed-off-by: Monis Khan <mok@vmware.com>

deploy/concierge/deployment.yaml

@@ -148,6 +148,9 @@ spec:
               - path: "labels"
                 fieldRef:
                   fieldPath: metadata.labels
+              - path: "name"
+                fieldRef:
+                  fieldPath: metadata.name
               - path: "namespace"
                 fieldRef:
                   fieldPath: metadata.namespace

deploy/concierge/rbac.yaml

@@ -69,6 +69,9 @@ rules:
   - apiGroups: [ config.concierge.pinniped.dev, authentication.concierge.pinniped.dev ]
     resources: [ "*" ]
     verbs: [ create, get, list, update, watch ]
+  - apiGroups: [apps]
+    resources: [replicasets,deployments]
+    verbs: [get]
 ---
 kind: RoleBinding
 apiVersion: rbac.authorization.k8s.io/v1