Disabling compaction of a region is currently done in order to keep
the references valid. But disabling only compaction is not enough, we
also need to disable eviction, as it also invalidates
references. Rather than introducing another type of lock, compaction
and eviction are controlled together, generalized as "reclaiming"
(hence the reclaim_lock).
It relies on the fact that the process has a fixed amount of memory
assigned and std::bad_alloc is thrown in a timely manner when it fills
up, which is the case for seastar's allocator, but not with the
default allocator. With the latter the OOM killer kills the process.
