Changes dockerized_service to use ephermal port publish, and
query the published port from podman/docker.
Modifies client code to use slightly changed usage syntax.
Replace direct usage of SCYLLA environment variable with the build_mode
pytest fixture and path_to helper function. This makes tests more
flexible and consistent with the test framework. Also this allows to use
tests with xdist, where environment variable can be left in the master
process and will not be set in the workers
Add using the fixture to get the scylla binary from the suite, this will
align with getting relocatable Scylla exe.
Fixes#27694
Unless set by config, the location will default to /etc/scylla, which is not a good
place to write things for tests. Push the config properly and the directory (but
_not_ creation) to all provider basetype.
Closesscylladb/scylladb#27696
