Detached migration callbacks (on_create_view, on_update_view, on_drop_view)
can race with view_builder::drain() teardown.
Add a lifetime gate to view_builder and wire callback launches through
_ops_gate.hold() so each detached dispatch future is tracked until it
completes (finally keeps the hold alive). During shutdown, drain()
now waits for all tracked callback work with _ops_gate.close().
This ensures drain does not proceed past callback lifetime while shutdown is in
progress, and ignores only gate_closed_exception at callback entry as the
expected shutdown path.
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