In this series we add support for forwarding strongly consistent CQL requests to suitable replicas, so that clients can issue reads/writes to any node and have the request executed on an appropriate tablet replica (and, for writes, on the Raft leader). We return the same CQL response as what the user would get while sending the request to the correct replica and we perform the same logging/stats updates on the request coordinator as if the coordinator was the appropriate replica.
The core mechanism of forwarding a strongly consistent request is sending an RPC containing the user's cql request frame to the appropriate replica and returning back a ready, serialized `cql_transport::response`. We do this in the CQL server - it is most prepared for handling these types and forwarding a request containing a CQL frame allows us to reuse near-top-level methods for CQL request handling in the new RPC handler (such as the general `process`)
For sending the RPC, the CQL server needs to obtain the information about who should it forward the request to. This requires knowledge about the tablet raft group members and leader. We obtain this information during the execution of a `cql3/strong_consistency` statement, and we return this information back to the CQL server using the generalized `bounce_to_shard` `response_message`, where we now store the information about either a shard, or a specific replica to which we should forward to. Similarly to `bounce_to_shard`, we need to handle this `result_message` in a loop - a replica may move during statement execution, or the Raft leader can change. We also use it for forwarding strongly consistent writes when we're not a member of the affected tablet raft group - in that case we need to forward the statement twice - once to any replica of the affected tablet, then that replica can find the leader and return this information to the coordinator, which allows the second request to be directed to the leader.
This feature also allows passing through exception messages which happened on the target replica while executing the statement. For that, many methods of the `cql_transport::cql_server::connection` for creating error responses needed to be moved to `cql_transport::cql_server`. And for final exception handling on the coordinator, we added additional error info to the RPC response, so that the handling can be performed without having the `result_message::exception` or `exception_ptr` itself.
Fixes [SCYLLADB-71](https://scylladb.atlassian.net/browse/SCYLLADB-71)
[SCYLLADB-71]: https://scylladb.atlassian.net/browse/SCYLLADB-71?atlOrigin=eyJpIjoiNWRkNTljNzYxNjVmNDY3MDlhMDU5Y2ZhYzA5YTRkZjUiLCJwIjoiZ2l0aHViLWNvbS1KU1cifQClosesscylladb/scylladb#27517
* github.com:scylladb/scylladb:
test: add tests for CQL forwarding
transport: enable CQL forwarding for strong consistency statements
transport: add remote statement preparation for CQL forwarding
transport: handle redirect responses in CQL forwarding
transport: add exception handling for forwarded CQL requests
transport: add basic CQL request forwarding
idl: add a representation of client_state for forwarding
cql_server: handle query, execute, batch in one case
transport: inline process_on_shard in cql_server::process
transport: extract process() to cql_server
transport: add messaging_service to cql_server
transport: add response reconstruction helpers for forwarding
transport: generalize the bounce result message for bouncing to other nodes
strong consistency: redirect requests to live replicas from the same rack
transport: pass foreign_ptr into sleep_until_timeout_passes and move it to cql_server
transport: extract the error handling from process_request_one
transport: move error response helpers from connection to cql_server
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