During decommission, we first mark a topology request as done, then shut
down a node and in the following steps we remove node from the topology.
Thus, finished request does not imply that a node is removed from
the topology.
Due to that, in node_ops_virtual_task::wait, while gathering children
from the whole cluster, we may hit the connection exception - because
a node is still in topology, even though it is down.
Modify the get_children method to ignore the exception and warn
about the failure instead.
Keep token_metadata_ptr in get_children to prevent topology from changing.
Fixes: https://scylladb.atlassian.net/browse/SCYLLADB-867
Needs backports to all versions
Closesscylladb/scylladb#29035
* github.com:scylladb/scylladb:
tasks: fix indentation
tasks: do not fail the wait request if rpc fails
tasks: pass token_metadata_ptr to task_manager::virtual_task::impl::get_children
(cherry picked from commit 2e47fd9f56)
Closesscylladb/scylladb#29126
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