The SSTable is removed from the reclaimed memory tracking logic only
when its object is deleted. However, there is a risk that the Bloom
filter reloader may attempt to reload the SSTable after it has been
unlinked but before the SSTable object is destroyed. Prevent this by
removing the SSTable from the reclaimed list maintained by the manager
as soon as it is unlinked.
The original logic that updated the memory tracking in
`sstables_manager::deactivate()` is left in place as (a) the variables
have to be updated only when the SSTable object is actually deleted, as
the memory used by the filter is not freed as long as the SSTable is
alive, and (b) the `_reclaimed.erase(*sst)` is still useful during
shutdown, for example, when the SSTable is not unlinked but just
destroyed.
Fixes#19722
Signed-off-by: Lakshmi Narayanan Sreethar <lakshmi.sreethar@scylladb.com>