In this change, tablet_virtual_task starts supporting tablet
resize (i.e. split and merge).
Users can see running resize tasks - finished tasks are not
presented with the task manager API.
A new task state "suspended" is added. If a resize was revoked,
it will appear to users as suspended. We assume that the resize was revoked
when the tablet number didn't change.
Fixes: #21366.
Fixes: #21367.
No backport, new feature
Closesscylladb/scylladb#21891
* github.com:scylladb/scylladb:
test: boost: check resize_task_info in tablet_test.cc
test: add tests to check revoked resize virtual tasks
test: add tests to check the list of resize virtual tasks
test: add tests to check spilt and merge virtual tasks status
test: test_tablet_tasks: generalize functions
replica: service: add split virtual task's children
replica: service: pass parent info down to storage_group::split
tasks: children of virtual tasks aren't internal by default
tasks: initialize shard in task_info ctor
service: extend tablet_virtual_task::abort
service: retrun status_helper struct from tablet_virtual_task::get_status_helper
service: extend tablet_virtual_task::wait
tasks: add suspended task state
service: extend tablet_virtual_task::get_status
service: extend tablet_virtual_task::contains
service: extend tablet_virtual_task::get_stats
service: add service::task_manager_module::get_nodes
tasks: add task_manager::get_nodes
tasks: drop noexcept from module::get_nodes
replica: service: add resize_task_info static column to system.tablets
locator: extend tablet_task_info to cover resize tasks