The copy assignment operator of _ck can throw
after _type and _bound_weight have already been changed.
This leaves position_in_partition in an inconsistent state,
potentially leading to various weird symptoms.
The problem was witnessed by test_exception_safety_of_reads.
Specifically: in cache_flat_mutation_reader::add_to_buffer,
which requires the assignment to _lower_bound to be exception-safe.
The easy fix is to perform the only potentially-throwing step first.
Fixes#15822Closesscylladb/scylladb#15864