Pass a change diff into the notification callback,
rather than add or remove servers one by one, so that
if we need to persist the state, we can do it once per
configuration change, not for every added or removed server.
For now still pass added and removed entries in two separate calls
per a single configuration change. This is done mainly to fulfill the
library contract that it never sends messages to servers
outside the current configuration. The group0 RPC
implementation doesn't need the two calls, since it simply
marks the removed servers as expired: they are not removed immediately
anyway, and messages can still be delivered to them.
However, there may be test/mock implementations of RPC which
could benefit from this contract, so we decided to keep it.
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