When cross-shard barrier is abort()-ed it spawns a background fiber
that will wake-up other shards (if they are sleeping) with exception.
This fiber is implicitly waited by the owning sharded service .stop,
because barrier usage is like this:
sharded<service> s;
co_await s.invoke_on_all([] {
...
barrier.abort();
});
...
co_await s.stop();
If abort happens, the invoke_on_all() will only resolve _after_ it
queues up the waking lambdas into smp queues, thus the subseqent stop
will queue its stopping lambdas after barrier's ones.
However, in debug mode the queue can be shuffled, so the owning service
can suddenly be freed from under the barrier's feet causing use after
free. Fortunately, this can be easily fixed by capturing the shared
pointer on the shared barrier instead of a regular pointer on the
shard-local barrier.
fixes: #11303
Signed-off-by: Pavel Emelyanov <xemul@scylladb.com>
Closes#11553