before this change, we rely on the default-generated fmt::formatter created from operator<<, but fmt v10 dropped the default-generated formatter.
in this change, we include `fmt/ranges.h` and/or `fmt/std.h` for formatting the container types, like vector, map optional and variant using {fmt} instead of the homebrew formatter based on operator<<.
with this change, the changes adding fmt::formatter and the changes using ostream formatter explicitly, we are allowed to drop `FMT_DEPRECATED_OSTREAM` macro.
Refs scylladb#13245
Closesscylladb/scylladb#17968
* github.com:scylladb/scylladb:
treewide: do not define FMT_DEPRECATED_OSTREAM
treewide: include fmt/ranges.h and/or fmt/std.h
utils/managed_bytes: add support for fmt::to_string() to bytes and friends
87b08c957f