before this change, we rely on the default-generated fmt::formatter
created from operator<<, but fmt v10 dropped the default-generated
formatter.
in this change, we include `fmt/ranges.h` and/or `fmt/std.h`
for formatting the container types, like vector, map
optional and variant using {fmt} instead of the homebrew
formatter based on operator<<.
with this change, the changes adding fmt::formatter and
the changes using ostream formatter explicitly, we are
allowed to drop `FMT_DEPRECATED_OSTREAM` macro.
Refs scylladb#13245
Signed-off-by: Kefu Chai <kefu.chai@scylladb.com>