Some time ago #16558 was merged that moved view builder drain into generic drain. After this merge dtests started to fail from time to time, so the PR was reverted (see #18278). In #18295 the hang was found. View builder drain was moved from "before stopping messaging service to "after" it, and view update write handlers in proxy hanged for hard-coded timeout of 5 minutes without being aborted. Tests don't wait for 5 minutes and kill scylla, then complain about it and fail.
This PR brings back the original PR as well as the necessary fix that cancels view update write handlers on stop.
Closesscylladb/scylladb#18408
* github.com:scylladb/scylladb:
Reapply "Merge 'Drain view_builder in generic drain' from ScyllaDB"
view: Abort pending view updates when draining
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