Currently, each change to tablet metadata triggers a full metadata reload from disk. This is very wasteful, especially if the metadata change affects only a single row in the `system.tablets` table. This is the case when the tablet load balancer triggers a migration, this will affect a single row in the table, but today will trigger a full reload.
We expect tablet count to potentially grow to thousands and beyond and the overhead of this full reload can become significant.
This PR makes tablet metadata reload partial, instead of reloading all metadata on topology or schema changes, reload only the partitions that are affected by the change. Copy the rest from the in-memory state.
This is done with two passes: first the change mutations are scanned and a hint is produced. This hint is then passed down to the reload code, which will use it to only reload parts (rows/partitions) of the metadata that has actually changed.
The performance difference between full reload and partial reload is quite drastic:
```
INFO 2024-07-25 05:06:27,347 [shard 0:stat] testlog - Tablet metadata reload:
full 616.39ms
partial 0.18ms
```
This was measured with the modified (by this PR) `perf_tablets`, which creates 100 tables, each with 2K tablets. The test was modified to change a single tablet, then do a full and partial reload respectively, measuring the time it takes for reach.
Fixes: #15294
New feature, no backport needed.
Closesscylladb/scylladb#15541
* github.com:scylladb/scylladb:
test/perf/perf_tablets: add tablet metadata reload perf measurement
test/boost/tablets_test: add test for partial tablet metadata updates
db/schema_tables: pass tablet hint to update_tablet_metadata()
service/storage_service: load_tablet_metadata(): add hint parameter
service/migration_listener: update_tablet_metadata(): add hint parameter
service/raft/group0_state_machine: provide tablet change hint on topology change
service/storage_service: topology_state_load(): allow providing change hint
replica/tablets: add update_tablet_metadata()
replica/tablets: fix indentation
replica/tablets: extract tablet_metadata builder logic
replica/tablets: add get_tablet_metadata_change_hint() and update_tablet_metadata_change_hint()
locator/tablets: add tablet_map::clear_tablet_transition_info()
locator/tablets: make tablet_metadata cheap to copy
mutation/canonical_mutation: add key()
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