When getting leaving replica from from tablet info and transition info,
the getter code assumes that this replica always exists. It's not going
to be the case soon, so make the return value be optional.
There are four places that mess with leaving replica:
- stream tablet handler: this place checks that the leaving replica is
_not_ current host. If leaving replica is missing, the check should
pass
- cleanup tablet handler: this place checks that the leaving replica
_is_ current host. If leaving replica is missing, the check should
fail as well
- topology coordinator: it gets leaving replica to call cleanup on. If
leaving replica is missing, the cleanup call is short-circuited to
succeed immediately
- load-stats calculator: it checks if the leaving replica is self. This
check is not patched as it's automatically satisfied by std::optional
comparison operator overload for wrapped type
Signed-off-by: Pavel Emelyanov <xemul@scylladb.com>