During raft upgrade, a node may gossip about a new CDC generation that
was propagated through raft. The node that receives the generation by
gossip may have not applied the raft update yet, and it will not find
the generation in the system tables. We should consider this error
non-fatal and retry to read until it succeeds or becomes obsolete.
Another issue is when we fail with a "fatal" exception and not retrying
to read, the cdc metadata is left in an inconsistent state that causes
further attempts to insert this CDC generation to fail.
What happens is we complete preparing the new generation by calling `prepare`,
we insert an empty entry for the generation's timestamp, and then we fail. The
next time we try to insert the generation, we skip inserting it because we see
that it already has an entry in the metadata and we determine that
there's nothing to do. But this is wrong, because the entry is empty,
and we should continue to insert the generation.
To fix it, we change `prepare` to return `true` when the entry already
exists but it's empty, indicating we should continue to insert the
generation.
Fixesscylladb/scylladb#21227Closesscylladb/scylladb#22093
(cherry picked from commit 4f5550d7f2)
Closesscylladb/scylladb#22546