these unused includes were identifier by clang-include-cleaner. after
auditing these source files, all of the reports have been confirmed.
please note, because quite a few source files relied on
`utils/to_string.hh` to pull in the specialization of
`fmt::formatter<std::optional<T>>`, after removing
`#include <fmt/std.h>` from `utils/to_string.hh`, we have to
include `fmt/std.h` directly.
Signed-off-by: Kefu Chai <kefu.chai@scylladb.com>
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