storage_proxy has a throttling mechanism which attempts to limit the number
of background writes by forcefully raising CL to ALL
(it's not implemented exactly like that, but that's the effect) when
the amount of background and queued writes is above some fixed threshold.
If this is applied to a write, it becomes "throttled",
and its ID is appended to into _throttled_writes.
Whenever the amount of background and queued writes falls below the threshold,
writes are "unthrottled" — some IDs are popped from _throttled_writes
and the writes represented by these IDs — if their handlers still exist —
have their CL lowered back.
The problem here is that IDs are only ever removed from _throttled_writes
if the number of queued and background writes falls below the threshold.
But this doesn't have to happen in any finite time, if there's constant write
pressure. And in fact, in one load test, it hasn't happened in 3 hours,
eventually causing the buffer to grow into gigabytes and trigger OOM.
This patch is intended to be a good-enough-in-practice fix for the problem.
Fixesscylladb/scylladb#17476Fixesscylladb/scylladb#1834Closesscylladb/scylladb#19136