emit_only_live_rows is a convenience so downstream consumers of the
mutation compactors don't have to check the `bool is_live` already
passed to them. This convenience however causes a template parameter and
additional logic for the compactor. As the most prominent of these
consumers (the query result builder) will soon have to switch to
emit_only_live_rows::no for other reasons anyway (it will want to count
tombstones), we take the opportunity to switch everybody to ::no. This
can be done with very little additional complexity to these consumer --
basically an additional if or two.
This prepares the ground for removing this template parameter and the
associate logic from the compactor.