Currently the TLS handshake in the vector search client does not have a timeout.
This is because tls::connect does not perform handshake itself; the handshake
is deferred until the first read/write operation is performed. This can lead to long
hangs on ANN requests.
This commit calls tls::check_session_is_resumed() after tls::connect
to force the handshake to happen immediately and to run under with_timeout.
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