Used host id to check if the update is for the node itself. Using IP is unreliable since if a node is restarted with different IP a gossiper message with previous IP can be misinterpreted as belonging to a different node.
Fixes: #22777
Backport to 2025.1 since this fixes a crash. Older version do not have the code.
Closesscylladb/scylladb#24000
* https://github.com/scylladb/scylladb:
test: add reproducer for #22777
storage_service: Do not remove gossiper entry on address change
storage_service: use id to check for local node
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