coroutine::parallel_for_each avoids an allocation and is therefore preferred. The lifetime
of the function object is less ambiguous, and so it is safer. Replace all eligible
occurences (i.e. caller is a coroutine).
One case (storage_service::node_ops_cmd_heartbeat_updater()) needed a little extra
attention since there was a handle_exception() continuation attached. It is converted
to a try/catch.
Closes#10699