Fixes#16207
commitlog::delete_segments deletes (or recycles) segments replayed.
The actual file size here is added to footprint so actual delete then
can determine iff things should be recycled or removed.
However, we build a pending delete list of named_files, and the files
we added did not have size set. Bad. Actual deletion then treated files
as zero-byte sized, i.e. footprint calculations borked.
Simple fix is just filling in the size of the objects when addind.
Added unit test for the problem.
Closesscylladb/scylladb#16210
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