This patch causes orphaned hints (hints that were written towards a node
that is no longer their replica) to be sent with a default write
timeout. This is what is currently done for non-orphaned hints.
Previously, the timeout was hardcoded to one hour. This could cause a
long delay while shutting down, as hints manager waits until all ongoing
hint sending operation finish before stopping itself.
Fixes: #7051
(cherry picked from commit b111fa98ca)