It is possible that a gossip message from an old node is delivered
out of order during a slow boot and the raft address map overwrites
a new IP address with an obsolete one, from the previous incarnation
of this node. Take into account the node restart counter when updating
the address map.
A test case requires a parameterized error injection, which
we don't support yet. Will be added as a separate commit.
Fixes#14257
Refs #14357Closes#14329