This patch helps to speed up node boot up for test setups like dtest.
Nadav reported
```
With Asias's two patches o Scylla, and my patch to enable it in dtest:
Boot time of 5 nodes is now down to 9 seconds!
Remember we started this exercise with 214 seconds? :-)
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Closes#9808
* github.com:scylladb/scylla:
storage_service: Recheck tokens before throw in storage_service::bootstrap
gossip: Dot not wait for gossip to settle if skip_wait_for_gossip_to_settle is zero
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