This series handles errors when aborting node operations and prints them rather letting them leak and be exposed to the user.
Also, cleanup the node_ops logging formats when aborting different node ops
and add more error logging around errors in the "worker" nodes.
Closes#12799
* github.com:scylladb/scylladb:
storage_service: node_ops_signal_abort: print a warning when signaling abort
storage_service: s/node_ops_singal_abort/node_ops_signal_abort/
storage_service: node_ops_abort: add log messages
storage_service: wire node_ops_ctl for node operations
storage_service: add node_ops_ctl class to formalize all node_ops flow
repair: node_ops_cmd_request: add print function
repair: do_decommission_removenode_with_repair: log ignore_nodes
repair: replace_with_repair: get ignore_nodes as unordered_set
gossiper: get_generation_for_nodes: get nodes as unordered_set
storage_service: don't let node_ops abort failures mask the real error
(cherry picked from commit 6373452b31)
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