Fixes#25683
Once a table drop is complete, there should be no reason to retain
truncation records for it, as any replay should skip mutations
anyway (no CF), and iff we somehow resurrect a dropped table,
this replay-resurrected data is the least problem anyway.
Adds a prune phase to the startup drop_truncation_rp_records run,
which ignores updating, and instead deletes records for non-existant
tables (which should patch any existing servers with lingering data
as well).
Also does an explicit delete of records on actual table DROP, to
ensure we don't grow this table more than needed even in long
uptime nodes.
Small unit test included.
Closesscylladb/scylladb#25699
(cherry picked from commit bc20861afb)
Closesscylladb/scylladb#25813
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