Add more logging to barrier and drain rpc to try and pinpoint https://github.com/scylladb/scylladb/issues/26281
Bakport since we want to have it if it happens in the field.
Fixes: SCYLLADB-1821
Refs: #26281Closesscylladb/scylladb#29735
* https://github.com/scylladb/scylladb:
session, raft_topology: add periodic warnings for hung drain and stale version waits
session: add info-level logging to drain_closing_sessions
raft_topology: log sub-step progress in local_topology_barrier
raft_topology: log read_barrier progress in topology cmd handler