Add Guard.IsAdminAuthorized, a fail-closed variant of IsWhiteListed, and use
it to gate destructive volume admin RPCs. IsWhiteListed keeps its
allow-all-when-empty semantics for HTTP compatibility.
For TCP peers with an empty whitelist, off-host callers are rejected but
loopback (127.0.0.0/8, ::1) is still trusted. A volume server commonly
cohabits with the master/filer on a single host and in integration-test
clusters; the loopback exception keeps cluster-internal admin traffic
working without -whiteList while still locking out off-host attackers.
Non-TCP peers (in-process / bufconn / unix-socket) bypass the host check
entirely. When `weed server` runs master+volume+filer in a single process
the master dials the volume server in-process and the peer address surfaces
as "@", which has no parseable IP. Such a caller shares our OS process and
cannot be spoofed by a remote attacker, so we treat it as trusted by
construction.
The gate also tolerates a nil guard (developmental / embedded path) and only
enforces once a guard is wired up. UpdateWhiteList skips entries whose CIDR
fails to parse so the IP-iteration path can no longer hit a nil *net.IPNet.