* fix(volume): don't panic on read when needle map is nil
A failed CommitCompact reload (and #9335's new error path for a
remote-tiered volume with a stray .vif but no .idx) leaves v.nm == nil
on a volume that's still in the store. readNeedle / readNeedleDataInto
dereferenced v.nm with no guard, so the next GET segfaulted the
http handler instead of returning an error the client could retry on
another replica.
Add the same v.nm == nil check the other Volume accessors already use,
including the slow-read inner loop where the lock is released between
iterations and a failed reload can race in.
Fixes#9339.
* match rust nm-nil read behavior; trim comments
seaweed-volume's read_needle_with_option / re_lookup_needle_data_offset
already lift Option<NeedleMap> through ok_or(NotFound). Use ErrorNotFound
on the Go side too instead of a generic 500-mapped error so both volume
servers respond identically when v.nm is nil.
* log once when reads hit nil needle map
ErrorNotFound alone hides the real cause: a half-loaded volume just
returns 404s and the operator has nothing to grep for. Add a once-per-
volume Errorf on the nil path, reset on successful load. Mirror the
same in seaweed-volume via nm_or_not_found().
* trim comments
* drop once-flag, log inline on every nil-nm read