refactor: migrate to cosmos/gogoproto (backport #9356) (#9381)

* refactor: migrate to `cosmos/gogoproto` (#9356)

* refactor: migrate to `cosmos/gogoproto`

* add changelog

* Update Makefile

Co-authored-by: Thane Thomson <connect@thanethomson.com>

* update link

Co-authored-by: Thane Thomson <connect@thanethomson.com>

* `go mod tidy`

Co-authored-by: Thane Thomson <connect@thanethomson.com>

docs/architecture/adr-009-ABCI-design.md

@@ -33,7 +33,7 @@ See the [references](#references) for more.
 
 The native proto library in Go generates inflexible and verbose code.
 Many in the Go community have adopted a fork called
-[gogoproto](https://github.com/gogo/protobuf) that provides a
+[gogoproto](https://github.com/cosmos/gogoproto) that provides a
 variety of features aimed to improve the developer experience.
 While `gogoproto` is nice, it creates an additional dependency, and compiling
 the protobuf types for other languages has been reported to fail when `gogoproto` is used.

docs/architecture/adr-081-protobuf-mgmt.md

@@ -195,7 +195,7 @@ We currently aim to:
 [cosmos-sdk-buf-linting-ci]: https://github.com/cosmos/cosmos-sdk/blob/e6571906043b6751951a42b6546431b1c38b05bd/.github/workflows/proto.yml#L15
 [\#8003]: https://github.com/tendermint/tendermint/issues/8003
 [Nix]: https://nixos.org/
-[gogoprotobuf]: https://github.com/gogo/protobuf
+[gogoprotobuf]: https://github.com/cosmos/gogoproto
 [Prototool]: https://github.com/uber/prototool
 [buf-docs-gen]: https://docs.buf.build/bsr/documentation
 [redo]: https://redo.readthedocs.io/en/latest/