test: resolve remaining Ginkgo V2 and Gomega anti-patterns (#10440)

- Replaced Expect().Should() and Expect().ShouldNot() with .To() and .ToNot() across 12 files (Task 1).
- Replaced synchronously evaluated Eventually() with Expect() in server_status_request_controller_test.go (Task 2B).
- Extracted Skip() calls inside lazy callbacks into conditional checks using slices.Contains() in enable_api_group_extentions.go (Task 3).

Signed-off-by: opbot_xd <awasthikrishna23052005@gmail.com>

pkg/controller/server_status_request_controller_test.go

@@ -92,7 +92,7 @@ var _ = Describe("Server Status Request Reconciler", func() {
 				Expect(apierrors.IsNotFound(err)).To(BeTrue())
 			} else {
 				Expect(err).ToNot(HaveOccurred())
-				Eventually(instance.Status.Phase == test.expected.Status.Phase, timeout).Should(BeTrue())
+				Expect(instance.Status.Phase).To(Equal(test.expected.Status.Phase))
 			}
 		},
 		Entry("with phase=empty will be processed and phased successfully patched", request{