The current sending interfaces only send a message to the peer of a
given connection. For the server to send to a specific connected client
it'd have to track connections itself and send to them.
This adds a sending interface that uses the node_id to send to a
specific connected client. The conn argument is the listening socket
and its accepted sockets are searched for the destination node_id.
Signed-off-by: Zach Brown <zab@versity.com>